Between Sundays May 8, 2024

UUCV Friends,     We successfully hosted the Pacific Southwest Service Area Assembly, sponsored by Camp de Benneville Pines. And we did so with the help of many Energizer bunnies. Camp staff and board members provided so much. This message is about us at UUCV.

Throughout the weekend, visiting attendees continually thanked me, as our congregation’s lay figurehead. I accepted their thanks and pointed out how many elves were involved in making it happen. I take that metaphor from our longtime leader and benefactor Tom Berg’s cheerful admonition that “Little elves are not going to get the work done.” He meant that people needed to pitch in. So many of us elves pitched in to get the work done. To shift back the metaphor, we had a lot of Energizer bunnies.

In fact, so many of us were involved in getting the work done that I have realized that I cannot name them all individually. And that’s a good thing, because so many folks contributed. So, I’ll just name the various task areas involved, and if you know someone who worked on one or more of those tasks, please be sure to thank that person. Our entire professional staff was involved in putting on this event, some from months in advance and behind the scenes. A small group of Building and Grounds volunteers labored in the weeks and days before the event to spiff up our grounds, which were abundant with spring growth – and with the wildflowers we showed off. B & G volunteers also made sure that our indoor infrastructure was working.

Our indoor spaces also received special welcoming attention. While some of us may still think of our sacred spaces as a converted insurance building, many of our visitors commented what a lovely facility we had. This is thanks to those who made sure that we had our best face on in the sanctuary and that our tables and chairs were set up well, in the Sanctuary and in Berg Hall.

We were well fed, kept refreshed, and libated thanks to many UUCV volunteers and donors, and to the efforts of volunteers from Camp and from our sibling congregation Chalice. Our professional and volunteer AV/tech staff did amazing work both for in-house and online attendees. Several of the events are now archived for viewing.

We also acknowledge everyone who helped support music during the weekend, including Don’t Fret, setup and support for the two concerts, and financial and in-person support for the Emma’s Revolution performance. Home hospitality was well coordinated, and several guests stayed in the homes of our generous hosts. Simultaneous with the assembly, we hosted a youth Con (a gathering just for youth). We were glad to have two youth participants light our chalice for Sunday worship.

We finished with a bang-up Sunday service and yet more hospitality that followed, and many of our abundant leftovers went to a homeless shelter. All of our UUCV attendees did a wonderful job of providing our guests a warm welcome. Thank you to everyone!

Onward,
Jim Merrill, he/him
President, UUCV Board of Trustees

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Between Sundays April 11, 2024

So many of us have been on retreats: women’s retreats, choir retreats, men’s retreats, yoga retreats. So want to ask: Are we retreating from something?

Instead let’s look at retreats as sanctuaries, places where we can find solace, creativity, support, and connection. I like to think about women’s retreats a way of deepening and expanding my connection to women.

We live in a larger culture which often divides women against each other. And of course we live in an androcentric culture, which is fearfully becoming even more so. That’s why we need a sanctuary of time and space to reconnect with each other and share the wonderful creativity and wisdom each of us brings to the table. Come let’s celebrate ourselves at a Women’s Retreat on Saturday, June 15th from 9:00 til 5:00 at Susan Franzblau’s home at the Ventura Harbor.

Our team: Kathy Swift, Sally Herman, Susan Franzblau, Vel Linden, and Priscilla Akin, is preparing a home baked goods breakfast, a Middle Eastern vegetarian lunch and other delicacies. We are also preparing workshops on eating and walking meditation, breathwork, zentangles, T’ai chi, and more…We are women teaching and inspiring women. We are limiting the retreat to 20 women so give it some thought. We will have a signup sheet available on Sunday, April 20th after services. Instead of retreating let’s find a safe place, a sanctuary, to reconnect and learn from each other.

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Between Sundays March 27, 2024

GRATITUDE FOR GENEROSITY     

This April, we at UUCV remind everyone that we are grateful for the gifts of time, talent, and treasure that our members and friends give to our church home. It is pledge season, but that is not my focus, here. I do hope that you can pledge generously.

I first invite you, yes, any of you, to take five to ten minutes any time you are at the church campus just to do a little meditative weeding in our parking islands and especially around where our native wildflowers grow. We don’t want to have to mow those flowers down along with the weeds. (Spring has its shadow side!)

This 5-10 minute task, multiplied by our numbers, can make a lot of progress. Be a multiplier.

If you weed on a random day, feel free to put the weeds at the nearest curb. They will be picked up, be assured.

As I ask for your help, I also send gratitude to the volunteers who have been working diligently on keeping up with the grounds, They know who they are, and they need for all of us to pitch in to help, especially as we spiff up to host the Pacific Southwest Service Area Assembly, April 26-28. Think of this as a District Assembly. We come together with UUs from throughout the Southwest There are a lot of UUCV volunteers involved in helping to make this event a success. These are the ways that our community is supporting REGISTERED ATTENDEES. Register here.

– Don’t Fret, our house ukelele band, will provide background music and sing-along opportunities Friday evening.
– Michael Akseven and Susan Franzblau are coordinating home-stays for UUs who register.
– Susan Franzblau is also developing a list of hotels within a variety of price ranges for visitors.
– Martha Kazlo is especially interested in getting people signed up or being able to attend the Saturday entertainment from Emma’s Revolution.
– Michael Akseven and David Henkel are also coordinating the hospitality bars. Don’t forget that bottle donations are needed and very welcome. 
– Our coffee, tea, and bagel ministry is on board and ready to serve.
– Our Caring Committee has agreed to assist in preparation for the continental breakfasts, Saturday and Sunday Mornings.
– We will provide adventure! Kris Langabeer and Deb Menzies will lead an expedition to the Ventura Settling Ponds (birding and . . .) , Saturday afternoon.
– Someone named Kitty is working at making sure that technology works for this event, and she is coordinating with Brian Fortune (staff) and other volunteers to help make this happen.
– Our Director of Family Ministry, Lily Rappaport, is helping to coordinate a simultaneous Youth Con.
– Making this happen does not happen without the administrative skills of our Church Administrator, Jennifer Luce.
– The event is supported by folks from Chalice UU (Conejo Valley), especially former UUCV participant Bill Damerell.

A final note, just to clarify, DO I NEED TO REGISTER TO ATTEND IF I AM ALREADY A UUCV MEMBER? Yes, our church campus is a venue, but we are not the sponsors. The de Benneville Camp Board sponsors this event and has significant expenses to make this event available to UUs throughout the district. 

Sign up! Represent!
Jim Merrill, UUCV Board President

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The Unitarian Universalist Church of Ventura has had a Committee on Ministry (CoM) in one form or another since the gathered community’s inception. Many of us, however, will benefit from knowing a bit more about our CoM, which does the holy work of helping our church community remain in covenant.

Committees on Ministry serve various roles throughout our Unitarian Universalist tradition. Our own former Assistant Minister, the Rev. David Pyle, has written a description of the various roles that Committees on Ministry play within our UU governance practices.

https://www.uua.org/leaderlab/forming-committee-ministry

There are many different models for Committees on Ministry. Ours at UUCV has primarily focused on conflict resolution, between individuals in conflict among the membership, with concerns between staff and congregants, and with concerns about the overall ministry of the church, itself. The CoM at UUCV is, by and large, a problem-solving, mediating body that seeks to help our entire congregation remain in community with one another.

We are a covenantal people: that is at the heart of what the Committee on Ministry helps to support. Often, a concern brought before the CoM can be resolved with a phone call or email or two to clarify issues. Sometimes the work is deeper.

Because the Committee on Ministry’s work is sometimes tender work, it is usually confidential, for it addresses issues concerning people we hold dear. We must bless and thank the work that the members of the Committee on Ministry hold.

And because of the holy and tender work that the Committee on Ministry does, it is not an open committee for all volunteers. Its membership is comprised of the Senior Minister and customarily four standing members. When vacancies arise, the remaining members consider who might best be suited to support our congregation in remaining in covenant. They submit nominations for new members to the Board of Trustees, as representatives of the congregation, for approval. The hard holding of confidentiality and compassion is a special charge.

Our common understanding of right relationship calls upon each other to speak directly with another when we feel harm. When that does not work, the professional staff and the CoM are there to assist. The membership of the Committee on Ministry changes. It has one consistent email address: com@uuventura.org

 

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Finally!   
I get to be the Minister in Residence at Camp de Benneville Pines this summer – at Family Camp from July 21-27.  This is something that’s been in the works since before the pandemic, and finally(!) the timing works.
 
Camp de Benneville, which we fondly just shorten to Camp, is our UU camp in the San Bernardino Mountains. Nestled among the pines, scattered with chalice symbols everywhere, Camp is a spiritual home for so many UUs from the southwest part of the country. It is a place for our folks to connect with our faith and with each other, year after year.
 
Camp has also been struggling mightily for the last four years, what with a pandemic shut down, fires that burned right up to the edges, and debris flowing in the rains that followed the fires. This makes me all the happier to serve as the minister at one of our summer camps.
 
I hope that many UU Ventura families will join me. Camp defines family very broadly, so all are welcome. Family Camp still fills up fast, so we will be sure to let you know when registration opens. I encourage you all to consider going to camp at some point this year – maybe more than once! 

 

Upcoming camps to consider:
The Women’s Retreat on May 3-5. There is already a group planning on this one.
     The UU Men’s Fellowship on April 19-21
     June 30-July 6 – Elementary Summer Camp
     July 7-13 – Junior High Camp
     July 14-20 Senior High Camp

All are amazing ways to build our youth connection to our faith and each other. Also, our ‘Cluster Camp’ with nearby UU congregations is on September 27-29. In between all of that there are also artists camp, music camp, Thanksgiving camp, yoga camp. (To keep up with them all, you can always check the post in our online newsletter, UUCV This Week.)
 
We do have church funds that can help folks pay for camp registration, so please ask if that will help you make it. Let’s make it a great year for UU Ventura at Camp de Benneville Pines! 

 

In faith,
Rev. Dana

UUCV's Rev. Dana Worsnop smilling

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