Between Sundays 12-20-23

Dear Ones,
 
     The December crush is full upon us. 
Some of us adore it.
Some despise it.
Some are loneliest at this time of year.
Some manage to tap into the love, magic, and mystery.
 
None of us are alone in whatever we are feeling.
 
I send you warm holiday, holy day wishes through it all. 
I invite you into the wholeness of the season – joy, the overwhelm, the quiet, the raucous celebrations.
 
I invite you to church on Christmas Eve, which is on a Sunday this year!
So, we will have a 10 am all generations service Jingle All the Way, exploring the Unitarian origins of that favorite holiday song. There will be bells to jingle for all. At 5:30, we will have a traditional Lessons and Carols service Making Room, when we will make room for Christmas in our hearts, and then all head home to await Santa. 
 
Both services will also be Zoomed and streamed on YouTube.
For those joining from afar, here’s how you can prepare:
For the morning service, bring something to jingle along with.
In the evening, make sure you have a candle, and be ready to turn down your lights for singing Silent Night. 
 
Our collection at both services will be for the Lift Up Your Voice to End Homelessness Motel Fund which helps pay for motel rooms for people who are left out in the cold, at Christmas and through the year. 
 
I was one who leaned more to the dislike of Christmas and all its fanfare, until I found a UU church, that is. I love the way we celebrate this holiday. I love being with you all on Christmas Eve.
 
So come with your whole self in the morning or the evening or both!
 
Warmest holiday wishes to you all!
Your grateful minister,
Rev. Dana
UUCV's Rev. Dana Worsnop smilling

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Between Sundays 12-13-23

Good People,

     One of the enduring legacies of the UU Church of Ventura will be its advocacy for our unhoused neighbors, its influence over policy and practice on issues of homelessness, and direct assistance to people in need.

Under the auspices of Lift Up Your Voice to End Homelessness, one of the centerpieces of our work has been the hosting and organizing of a Memorial Service for our Homeless Neighbors. The service honors all the souls who died in Ventura County while living without shelter. Too often they have been forgotten and overlooked in life, and so we do what we can to honor their memory. 

For more than 15 years, this service (inspired by the Longest Night tradition that began in 1990) has been held in Ventura on the weekend closest to the Winter Solstice. For the last three years, a twin service has been held in Oxnard as well, sponsored by the City and faith community of Oxnard.

The 2023 Longest Night Memorial Services for our Homeless neighbors will be held on Saturday, Dec. 16 at 3:30 pm in Ventura’s Plaza Park and on Sunday, Dec. 17 at 3:30 pm in Oxnard’s Plaza Park.

These services honor the lives of those who died without shelter and offer solace to their family and friends, as well as to their unhoused companions. We read the names of those who have died, ringing a bell and lighting a candle for each.

Even as we honor the lives we have lost, the memorials also serve to raise awareness of the larger issues of homelessness and the plight of those who are still struggling to stay alive without shelter. There are many reasons why people reach this point in their lives. Many more people than we know live on the edge, and then are pushed over it by economic or medical tragedies.

This undertaking needs many hands to bring it into existence each December. We collect clothing, create headstones, need ‘day of’ help setting up, and have opportunities for youth to create items (like hygiene packs) to distribute at the memorial. If you would like to help with the Ventura Longest Night service, please contact Gale Naylor at galejnaylor@gmail.com. If you would like to help with the Oxnard Longest Night service, please contact Yukio Okano at yukio.okano@yahoo.com.

Perhaps the most significant way to help out with this service is simply to show up, honor the lives we have lost, and open your heart to the humanity—and heartbreak—of our neighbors living without shelter. 

The number of homeless people is growing in our county, in our state, and in the whole nation. The solution is beyond any of us as individuals. Yet, we can still show up, remember how deeply we care, bear witness.

This work is central to the mission and vision of this congregation. You have all been at it for so many years, that in some ways it has slipped into the background: a familiar, beautiful, and powerful part of our Tapestry of Love.

Let us remember its power and its purpose together.

In Faith,
Rev. Dana

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Winter is coming:  How can we help our unhoused neighbors?
 Each night there are over 1600 people on the streets of Ventura County looking for shelter.  The Point-in-Time count earlier this year showed at least 2,441 people were homeless in Ventura County.  Of this number, only 808 were sheltered.  There simply are not enough shelter beds.
 
The end of daylight savings signals that nights will come earlier and become colder.  You may recall the severe rains and cold weather this past winter.  More of this weather is again forecast this winter.
 
Think about the suffering that severe rain and cold bring to our homeless neighbors.  Some of us may get caught in the rain for a few moments, but none of us endures hours of pouring rain.  Let us remember that at least 158 unhoused people died in Ventura County in 2022.
 
For the first time, the cities of Ventura and Oxnard will each be opening separate Foul Weather Shelter (FWS) programs during the coming winter.  In addition to the 24/7 shelters both cities currently operate, the FWS programs will provide motel rooms for unhoused people when the weather becomes severe.  Between December 1st of this year to the end of March, 2024, the FWS programs will be triggered when predicted temperatures fall below 40 degrees or over 
½ inch of rain is anticipated.
 
The Foul Weather Shelter programs in Ventura and Oxnard will protect about 40 of the most vulnerable homeless folks.  Priority for FWS beds will be people over 65 and/or those with serious health conditions. Remaining rooms will be on a first come/first served basis.  For those who cannot get a room, “stay warm packs” will be provided.
 
How can you help?
 The FWS programs in both Ventura and Oxnard will rely on the generosity of faith communities.  River Community Church in Ventura and All Saints Episcopal Church in Oxnard will serve as program centers.  You can help in the following ways:
 
1. For the Ventura program, offer to provide meals.  Each FWS participant will receive a warm dinner and breakfast for the following day.  UUCV will be on standby to provide meals for specific weeks.  If you would like to help provide meals, please contact Sue Brinkmeyer at suebrinkmeyer@earthlink.net.
2. Donate items for the “stay warm packs.”  Unhoused folks who do not meet the criteria for motel rooms will receive supplies to assist them during the weather event.  The packs will include rain ponchos, tarps, blankets, jackets, hand-warmers, socks, toiletries, snacks, and bags for the materials.  
– If you would like to donate items for Ventura, please contact Kappy Paulson at kmp160@sbcglobal.net.  The River Community Church also has an Amazon “wish list” for donations.  
– If you would like to donate items for Oxnard, please contact Yukio Okano at yukio.okano@yahoo.com
 
3. Monetary donations.  This coming week’s UUCV plate collection will go to the Ventura and Oxnard FWS programs.  You can also mail checks as follows:
– For Ventura, send checks made out to River Community Church to 859 E. Santa Clara Street, Ventura 93001.  Put “Foul Weather” in the memo line.
– For Oxnard, send checks made out to All Saints Episcopal Church to 144 South “C” Street, Oxnard 93030.  Put “Foul Weather” in the memo line.
 
4. Volunteer when the FWS is triggered.  Volunteers are needed to help support the FWS programs by hosting participants at gathering centers and distributing “stay warm packs.”   If you would like to volunteer, please contact the following:

For Ventura, contact Kappy Paulson.
For Oxnard, contact Yukio Okano.  

Foul weather shelters will not solve the problem of homelessness.  But they will help protect the most vulnerable members of our community.  Please do what you can to help.

A Message from Yukio Okano
Member… Lift Up Your Voice to End Homelessness

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Mardi Gras Auction Party

Come celebrate Mardi Gras in October at our 2023 Annual Auction Kickoff. The party is being held on Saturday, October 7th from 4 pm – 7:30 pm. We want everyone to feel welcome, so we are selling tickets on a sliding scale from $1 to whatever you feel comfortable donating. Our suggested price is $13 per adult for advanced purchase to cover the dinner costs. Tickets will be available for advance purchase during Sunday’s coffee hour. You can also contact Ruth Owens to buy your tickets online. Be sure to let us know how many tickets you would like and the amount you feel comfortable donating. (View all available items at https://auctria.events/uucv)

This year we are encouraging you to invite family and friends to join us at the party. We are hoping folks will wear their finest Mardi Gras outfits. We will provide masks and beads! 

Some of the amazing events that we have planned include:

  • Live jazz music by the award-winning Ventura High School Jazz Quintet.
  • A catered Cajun dinner of fried chicken, Po’ Boy chicken sandwiches, red beans & rice (vegan), black-eyed peas (vegan), jalapeno hush puppies and corn bread muffins from The Cajun Country Café in Oxnard with hot sauce available on the side. We will also include a green salad (vegan) and homemade cupcakes for dessert.
  • An indoor and outdoor dining table will be reserved for those more comfortable wearing a mask.
  • Wine and sodas available.
  • Please be green and remember to bring your dinnerware.

Bring the whole family! Lily Rapaport has planned a number of fun events for the kids including a bouncy house, snow cones, and pizza.

Since the auction is our biggest fundraiser of the year, we will also be offering:

  • The famous New Orleans Hurricane drink (with or without rum) for a suggested donation of $5.
  • There will be a Raffle with at least 10 raffle prizes available including $50 cash – you pick what items you want to try to win! Tickets will be available for $1 each or $5 for 6 tickets.
  • We will be doing a fun Flip-A-Coin fundraiser. Tickets are $5 or 3 tries for $10. For each ticket bought, you guess if the coin will be heads (hand on your head) or tails (hand on your bum). If correct, you stay in. If wrong, you lose a ticket. The last person standing will win $50 cash. 
  • Another way to participate is through an amazingly generous offer by Dennis Charles, to match all cash donations up to a total of $1000! 
  • Some of the 185+ auction items will be available for viewing during the party.
  • And of course, we will also be doing a live auction of 6-8 items throughout the evening!

Come and kick off our annual auction with a great party! The online auction will begin on October 7th and continue until 8 pm on Sunday, October 22nd. You can view all available items at https://auctria.events/uucv Once in the site, select “Auction” then “Online Auction Items.” Contact Jen Luce if you would like help accessing the site or setting up your account.
 

Looking forward to seeing everyone on October 7th!

Between Sundays 8-24-23

Good People, I invite you to an Introduction to Wellspring after church on Sunday, August 27 in the Sanctuary around 11:30am.

Wellspring is a specifically UU spiritual practice small group, that helps people to explore what it means to be a UU and how to practice and live by our values. They call it Spiritual Deepening for the UU Soul.

On Sunday, you will get a taste of how the program sessions unfold, and all the components of the meetings. Participants explore spiritual practice(s) over the course of the program, and are asked to work with a spiritual coach (for which many options are offered). There is also some reading about UU history, heritage, and theology.

This program provides a possible answer to folks who – at some point in their lives as UUs – have asked their minister or each other, “What now? How do I deepen my faith? Is there a particular UU spiritual practice? How do I learn more about our Living Tradition?”

I facilitated this program in its early stages about 15 years ago. Our Music Director Carolyn Bjerke has been so inspired by it that she has actually served as president of the national board of Wellspring.

We have both found it as powerful as it is simple.

UUCV has run two groups online. This year I hope to have an in-person group, possibly hybrid. We’ll see what works for those interested.

Come, find out more on Sunday!

Looking Forward,
Rev. Dana

UUA General Assembly 2023

The Unitarian Universalist Association General Assembly (GA) will be held live in Pittsburgh, PA, June 21-25, 2023.  https://www.uua.org/ga

If you plan to register to attend in person or or online, consider whether you would like to represent UUCV as a voting member delegate. 

To vote on the business agenda, delegates must be registered for GA. There are three ways to register as a delegate:

  • In-person Registrant – You plan to go to Pittsburgh.
  • Full Virtual Registrant – You have signed up and will have full access to all online GA programming.
  • Business-only Registrant – You will be able to vote on business matters but not have access to any other elements of GA programming.

Delegates do not have to be registered for GA to vote in the election of candidates for office but they must be certified by the board president or minister. Rev. Dana will not be receiving requests for certification, so please let board president Jim Merrill (president@uuventura.org) know of your interest.

Our congregation is entitled to five member delegates, based on our membership number. If more than five of us are interested in serving as delegates, as board president I will certify delegates  based on the timing of their request and the status of their GA participation, with elected representatives of the congregation having priority. People who wish to serve as delegates must first register for GA and request to be certified. Again, let Jim know.

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